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Future study should also include other relationship forms, such as long-term heterosexual and homosexual cohabiting couples, and greater sample diversity, particularly in terms of race and socioeconomic status.

If this pattern extends to sex, it is possible that the performance of desire may be more equally shared among African American couples than White couples. Cc slaughter fun

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We thank Christine Williams for her helpful comments on an earlier draft of the paper. A version Wpmen this paper was presented at the annual Women want sex Bradbury of the American Sociological Association in Montreal, Canada, in August National Center for Biotechnology InformationU. J Marriage Fam. Author manuscript; available in PMC Aug 8. Sinikka Elliott and Debra Umberson. Author information Copyright and License Women want sex Bradbury Disclaimer.

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See other articles in PMC that cite the published article. Abstract We integrate theoretical traditions on the social construction of gender, heterosexuality, and marriage with research and theory on emotion work to guide a qualitative investigation of how married people understand and experience Women want sex Bradbury in marriage.

Method Data Collection and Recruitment As part of a larger project investigating the link between marriage and health, we recruited 31 married couples to participate in in-depth interviews. Sample The final sample consisted of 31 married couples.

Analysis Our goal was to understand how and why married people experience, negotiate, and interpret their sex lives. Results We analyzed the interviews with long-term married couples with particular attention to questions about how husbands and wives experience sex wan sexual intimacy over Women want sex Bradbury course of marriage.

Contested Terrain: Marital Sex A recurring theme throughout our interviews is that heterosexual sex is Women want sex Bradbury contested terrain.

Sex as a gauge of marital success A general theme around sex that emerged in the analysis of our interviews was that many men and women view sexual activity as a gauge of marital success. Discourse of sexual difference Two thirds of our respondents assert that men and women are very different sexual beings. Women want sex Bradbury

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Women want sex Bradbury The explanatory power of the discourse Lonely wives Getafe sexual difference As we report later in our analysis, experiencing unequal sexual desire is potentially a source of conflict for couples. As Joel puts it: One way Karen reconciles her trepidation over their sex life is by holding out faith that her interest in sex will change over time: Lindsey views it differently: Discussion The 62 married individuals we interviewed articulate Women want sex Bradbury discordant discourses about sex: Limitations and Future Directions A limitation of this study is the relative homogeneity of the sampled couples.

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